Sunday, July 1, 2012

In order to simplify my life, I created a new blog that will be linked to my gmail address instead of my yahoo one.  I'll be posting to that blog now, so check it out! I just added a bunch of new posts.

 Also, for those of you with private blogs, can you invite me to view yours with my gmail address?  chelsa.dimond@gmail.com.

Thanks!

Chelsa

Monday, June 11, 2012

Stuff

This post is a bunch of stuff that's been going on lately.

My Aunt and Uncle and their seven children came out to visit.  They were on a road trip across the country and came out of their way to see us.  We had a lot of fun cramming like sardines into our little place and catching up with them before they had to get on the road again.  Such a cute family!


A couple of weeks ago, after a long day filled with too much time in front of the boob tube, I decided to do a TV free summer.  We're more settled in our home now, and are getting more sleep at night, so I'm not quite as dependent upon the TV to entertain my kids.  I knew if I really wanted to make it through the summer we had to have a plan.  I sat down with my girl's and this is what we came up with,

Monday-Cooking Day.  I let my girls choose a bunch of recipes they would like to make throughout the summer.  A lot of them came off this blog.

Tuesday-Library Day.  Our library has a summer reading program going on and we go once a week to get new books and enter into drawings for prizes.  We've also been trying to have story time every day.

Wednesday-Game Day.  This can be whatever we happen to feel like that day.  The park, water games, board games, hide and seek etc.

Thursday-Service Day.  I still don't have much planned for this, but I've really been feeling like I need to teach my children to serve.  Any ideas?

Friday-Craft Day.  We got a few ideas off of this blog post.

We have a lot of fun things going on in our community too that we have plans to attend.  So far we've done pretty good.  There have been a few times when I've really needed a break and I let them watch a movie though.

Violet is 11 weeks old now!  She is smiling more and more, but I have had the hardest time catching it on camera.   I have been able to catch a few happier expressions though.
 

On the 2nd we had our Stake Temple Day.  We haven't been to the Temple since we had Violet, and decided to go.  A long drive, with three children, in a squishy car was crazy, but we're glad we went.


On Sunday, I decided we should have a pedicure party.  Kirk was napping and I needed to fill time.   It was a little stressful, but the girls had fun, so I guess that's what matters.  Even Violet got her toes painted!

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Just Cause

I just added a bunch of new blog posts, so be sure to scroll down and read them all!

Before I call it a night though, I have to add a few more pictures.  Just cause :)






Aren't my girls cute?!


And here is the lovely built in bunkbed my Dad made while he was here.  A shout out to my Mom for helping paint it too!

Picture Mystery

 I found some random pictures on my camera the other day.


I thought, "I don't remember taking these pictures."


I kept scrolling through them and a clue emerged


At last, the culprit caught!


It turns out that Clara is quite the pro at taking pictures.  Since I found these pictures, she has taken many more.  We might just have a photographer in the making!

Music Recital

Luci had her first music recital last week.  She was really nervous about playing her bells in front of everyone, but she did it!  I was so proud!  From the audience, Clara sang along to every song.  She's learned a lot watching her big sister practice over the past year.  I think she's ready to advance to the next level too :)




Mother's Day

What made my Mother's day great:

-Clara running in my room first thing in the morning saying "Happy Birthday Mommy!"

-Luci painting my nails, giving me a foot rub, and drawing me tons of pictures.

-Violet giving me a big smile.

-Kirk making me breakfast, lunch, dinner, and chocolate chip cookies.

At breakfast, kirk made a heart shape around my plate with Dove chocolates.  Before I could get downstairs, Clara sneaked and ate two of them.  Luci came to the rescue though and filled in the empty spots with smarties she got at a birthday party yesterday.

For dinner we ate out in our backyard.  So nice being with my cute family.

Happy Mother's Day Mom!  I love you!
Happy Mother's Day Dana, you raised a great son!

Catching Up

Violet is already seven weeks old!  A lot changes in seven weeks:  She's about 12 pounds already, smiling, and even rolling from her belly to her back!  Her eyes are very blue now,  she holds her head up fairly well, and she's already outgrowing size 0-3 months.  Very, very slowly she is starting to sleep longer at night, (we now get 3 hour stretches instead of 1.5-2 hour stretches).
 It feels like she's always been a part of our family!  I love this girl!

Here are a few pictures from the past 7 weeks.


On Easter Sunday, April 8th, we blessed Violet.  She was only two weeks old so the dress was really big on her.

My parents came into town the Friday before her blessing.  They stayed for 2 whole weeks!  It was wonderful!  They worked their booties off and got most of our house painted and a bunk bed built.  They cooked meals and helped entertain Luci and Clara for me.  One of the best parts though was their help with Violet in the night.  On several occasions when she wouldn't go back to sleep I brought her down to my parents and they graciously took care of her so Kirk and I could sleep.  It was a sad day when they left.  My girls and I all cried!


I tried in vain to do a photo shoot with my girls (copying a picture off pinterest).  This is the best we got.


I got this sweet picture of Violet though.


For the first month of her life, Violet always made this cute kissy face.  I loved it!  She doesn't do it very often any more and I miss it. 

2 weeks old



3 weeks old
When I took her to the doctor they said she was gaining about 2 oz a day!  You can tell by the last two pictures how much she changed in just a week.

Violet always wears a bib.  Why?  Because she is constantly barfing and spitting up!  She soaks through several bibs or outfits each day.  When I had Luci I didn't understand why bibs came with outfits.  When I had Clara I started to understand why.  And now I wish they came with multiple bibs!

 I never posted a picture of Grandma Dana with the girls.  It was so great having her come visit too!  Thanks Dana!



Friday, March 30, 2012

Our lives have been very crazy lately! Violet was born two weeks early and we closed on our home loan two weeks later than planned. Meanwhile Kirk is amidst the busiest time of year for his job. So, just a week after Violet was born we moved into our new home which was not move in ready. Fortunately Kirk's mom, Dana, flew out to our rescue! She packed up the rest of the house we were living in and unpacked everything after we moved into our new one! We also had tons of awesome friends who helped watch our kids and bring us meals! We could not have done it without everyone's help!

A few days after Dana left, on Violet's original due date, my parents flew out to help us out. They have been a great help too: painting walls, building a bunk bed, cooking meals and taking care of the girls.

So that is why I am barely getting around to blogging about Violet's birth.

Here are the details from that special day our sweet baby girl was born:

March 23rd
2:00am

I woke up from a dream that I was in labor. The night before Kirk mentioned that he had a really busy day at work the next day. I joked that I would go into labor just because it was a busy day. When I woke up I was feeling crampy, but was not having contractions. I couldn't fall back to sleep though and went upstairs to lay down.

3:00am

As I was laying down I felt a click. Nothing happened after so I figured it was just the baby moving. A few minutes later I rolled over and out came the water. Too much to be pee:). I decided it was time to wake Kirk up.

3:30am

Kirk gave me a blessing then gathered together some last minute things while I called the doctor and my good friend Mindy. This is the second time I've woken her up at 3:30 in the morning to babysit. She was so sweet and came over to our house so we didn't have to wake our girls up.

4:00am

We arrived at the Emergency room to check in. I still was not having contractions. It felt so weird to arrive at the hospital not in agonizing pain. I called my friend Jenny, who was going to be my doula, to let her know we were having our baby.

5:25am

After getting all checked in and hooked to the monitors they checked my cervix and I was only dilated to a 3 and 60% effaced. At my doctors visit the day before I was dilated to a 2 and 60% effaced. I still was only having occasional contractions so they took me off the monitors and had me walk the halls for a while. We walked around the same loop for 20 minutes, then I sat on the birthing ball for a little bit, then walked some more.

6:15am

I still wasn't progressing so my doula suggested nipple stimulation. I thought that was weird, but I gave it a try and sure enough it worked. My contractions were immediately stronger and 2-4 minutes apart.

While mentally preparing for this birth I planned on going without an epidural. I thought my labor would be as fast or faster than it was for Clara so I assumed I wouldn't even have it as an option.

When my contractions started coming consistently the nurse asked if I wanted an epidural and I honestly didn't know if I did or not. The pain was still manageable so I said I was fine for now but might want one later. Jenny said I should decide now if I wanted one and suggested that I didn't since my blood pressure was already low. I guess epidurals can make your blood pressure drop even lower. So I went forward without anything.

I hate IV's and was hoping I wouldn't need one since I wasn't getting an epidural, but they still make you have the heplock in. When the nurse was putting it in I got really faint and almost passed out. I was sitting in the rocking chair at the point so they called in more nurses to lift me into the bed. I think IV's are almost as bad as labor. The worst part is being in labor when you get one.

7:15am

They checked my cervix again and I was dilated to a 5 and 90-100% effaced. I was able to sit in the shower and have the hot water pound on my lower back.

8:05am

I was dilated to a 7-8 but my cervix was still posterior. They had me roll around onto each side for a couple of contractions then on my hands and knees to get the baby un-posterior (is that a word?)

8:25am

I was fully dilated and effaced. The doctor and his crew all came in. At this point I was really wondering what I got myself into. The nurse told me to start pushing and I was not ready at all. I was trying to listen to my body and do what felt right and at this point pushing didn't. I pushed a little bit and the nurse looked at me and said "That is not effective pushing!". I just wanted to smack her! (I was not a huge fan of this nurse. She was way old school and wanted to do things as routinely as she always had).

8:49am

She was born! I thought I was going to die for a little bit, but I survived! Jenny had mentioned to my doctor how important it was to me that I didn't tear, so he focused a lot of attention on making sure I didn't. He used mineral oil and then guided me with my pushing so she wouldn't come out too fast. When her head was starting to crown he had me stop pushing for a contraction for it to stretch. It was honestly so hard to do because I was in so much pain and just wanted her out. After her head came out he had me stop pushing again as he slowly guided her shoulders out. In the end, it was worth the few extra minutes of pain because I didn't tear! When she came out, her cord was short so they could only set her on my hip area. They had Kirk cut her cord right away rather then waiting and the old school nurse whisked her away and got her foot prints and all that stuff before she let me hold her.


My doctor

My doula, Jenny


My sweet baby Violet!




Luci and Clara were so excited to meet their new sister! They seemed to not even notice I was there until my food came.


Kirk's sister Janice was flying into Harrisburg on the 23rd and had made plans to rent a car and come visit her nieces for a couple of hours. She got lucky and got to meet her new niece that day too.


One nice thing about this hospital is they prepare a special meal for you and your spouse during your stay. They set the table nicely and even brought in sparkling cider. My friend was watching Luci and Clara during this time, and Violet was sleeping, so Kirk and I got to enjoy a nice meal alone.


When Clara was born, I only spent one night at the hospital and then asked if I could go home early. I was so lonely without Kirk there and didn't sleep good on their bed. With Violet, I still didn't sleep good, but didn't want to come home to a house full of boxes, so I stayed the full time. I really enjoyed my time alone with Violet and being fed hot meals for breakfast lunch and dinner.

On Sunday, my family came to take us home. We had Violet wear the same outfit that I wore home from the hospital when I was a baby and the same one we brought Luci and Clara home in.







The hospital

Welcome home Violet!